Advice For Ppl That Are Getting To Know Each Other

When You Ask Questions Ask Questions That Can Start A Discussion Not Only Give You A Yes Or No Answer. If You ask something that has different opinions or provokes them then you know how the person thinks if he or she goes after what the quran and sunnah says or after what they think is right

You Can Ask Questions Like What Do You Think About Polygamy Marriage?

Their is no right or wrong answer we all have different opinions about this but it is something u have to talk about not think that everything is okey and later the girl writes in her contract that she forbids you to marry another one or after marriage the guy comes and says hey i want to get married again with this person bcuz so and so.
This could be a long discussion and you both would know how the other one thinks and if his or hers opinion is based on themselves, facts or islam

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Would you like your wife to work or stay at home?

there is no right or wrong answer here only different opinions.
some girls study so they could have the best job after and some study so they could teach ppl around them their children and so on. Some guys dont want their future wife to work ever, they want to come home after a hard day at work and find their wife there helping them making them happy and taking care of the household which is work too and some wants their wife to work to have her own life and be successful
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Having Friends Of The Opposite Sex?

Then u have to think about a lot of things is ppl that you have to work with or study with in school friends or do u only have contact with them at school/work?
do u contact them outside on the phone just to talk, chat, hang out outside school/work then they r ur friends
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A woman traveling without a mahrem?

Different opinions here too
some says no never, some says if she is in a group, others say she can go alone but only if someone from her relatives takes her to the airport and takes her from the airport to them, some say she has to have a mahrem even when she goes out from her house, and some say she can travel alone its not like it was before its more safe to travel now.
see which one fits u and which one is the one he/she follows

i hope this helps inshAllah and remember always honesty